Why I'm Coming Out As Gay

  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 17 มิ.ย. 2019
  • Behind the scenes of Eugene Lee Yang's coming out video, "I'm Gay:" a never-before-seen look inside the mind of a young artist and his complex, dark struggles with his identity, his work, his public persona, and his private life.
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  • LayLee Anderson
    LayLee Anderson 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    You are incredible!

  • pastel creativity
    pastel creativity 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I still haven't told my mom I'm bisexual yet. Fudge... That's going to be a ride. I'm not so worried about my mom I'm more worried about my grandfather, my sister is lesbian and when she told my grandpa that she was lesbian he didn't invite her to any events for 2 years. And I had a fifth grade graduation and my sister my grandpa and my mom came and my sister started talking about how good I was and how she was going to give a video to her girlfriend. Right as my grandfather started to read about how wrong LGBT community was.. my sister covered his mouth and said shut the f****** up.

  • Lex
    Lex 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I know this was done in a chronological and colour order, but I really like the fact that purple was "Pride" because purple is Eugene's colour

  • Redsauce 57
    Redsauce 57 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Why am I now attracted to him more than I was...

  • platoonutzeyz88
    platoonutzeyz88 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    The only surprise in the coming out video is that the only person who came out was Eugene, I feel like there should at least be one or two more.

  • Hippo Feathers
    Hippo Feathers 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    You should be really proud of yourselves and I hope Eugene is getting lots of love and support after putting himself out there like this. Was such a breathtaking video.

  • Saidj Dihia
    Saidj Dihia 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I love him so much

    So proud of youu ❤

  • kisha potato
    kisha potato 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Can we just talk about the purple/pride outfit?? Like WOW!!

  • sadman sakib
    sadman sakib 19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Damn I always thought E was the most secure and confident person in the group!!!

  • Ace Blackmare
    Ace Blackmare วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Me: *sees Eugene for the first time* Aw~ I knew something big will happen to him
    Also Me: *sees this video* OMG! YAS! I'm proud of you, Eugene!!!

  • NGG Gambit
    NGG Gambit วันที่ผ่านมา

    Try Guys, more like try GAYS

  • E Gamer
    E Gamer วันที่ผ่านมา

    not gonna lie I kinda hoped he was gay cuz now it means than im one step closer to having a chance with him lol

  • Clown World
    Clown World วันที่ผ่านมา

    Man regularly cross-dresses and wears makeup and is afraid after he official comes out people will disown him. BRUH.

  • Tommy1703
    Tommy1703 วันที่ผ่านมา

    We all love Eugene

  • Dani J
    Dani J วันที่ผ่านมา

    I feel so happy for him! I've always knew he was gay and I'm so happy that finally he accepts that and with a lot of dignity and courage even though we all know it's not easy to do that even in the world we have know. Congratulations, Eugene!!

  • Official Yessi
    Official Yessi วันที่ผ่านมา

    I really want to Thank Eugene for making this video a lot of people can relate to this, and your helping many come out your truly inpiring

  • Dravid Singh - Centennial Sr PS (1506)
    Dravid Singh - Centennial Sr PS (1506) วันที่ผ่านมา

    You look like a damn carcass in the thumbnail

  • Andrew Childers
    Andrew Childers วันที่ผ่านมา

    We love you Eugene no matter what

  • Mammy Bluegum
    Mammy Bluegum วันที่ผ่านมา

    This is your mental illness problem
    • Sense of self as worthless or bad
    • Lack of connectedness to supportive adults and peers trying to get you mental help
    • Lack of alternative ways to view "differentness" due to your illness
    • Lack of access to role models because of your mental illness
    • Lack of opportunities to socialize with other gays/lesbians except at gay bars
    • Lack of being accepted by normal people because of you may have STD’s
    • The risk of contracting HIV or having STD’s
    • Always defensive because normal people distance you from them because they know of your illness and you will not

  • A Bag Of Queers
    A Bag Of Queers วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    "this is the most expensive Coing out video ever"

  • Did you call me a thot
    Did you call me a thot วันที่ผ่านมา

    Bruh Eugene is a fuckin genius

  • Katherine Bracewell
    Katherine Bracewell วันที่ผ่านมา

    Eugene! This video really touched my heart! I've been following the try guys for years, and while I always enjoyed watching you I never really felt like I knew you! I could feel how closed off and reserved you where, but this video changed everything! It's the most open and honest you have ever been and it made me love you soooo much more! You do you! And I'm gonna love you no matter what! I hope you find your happiness because you are good enough and you deserve it!! 😘😘😘

  • Nope Nooe
    Nope Nooe วันที่ผ่านมา

    Too me Eugene was my inspiration, like I looked up to this man because I thought he was the type of guy who would get bitches in 2 seconds but I guess not😐

  • Candaice Chui
    Candaice Chui วันที่ผ่านมา

    is anyone else crying

  • Abby Taylor
    Abby Taylor วันที่ผ่านมา

    I fucking love Kim Chi! And I absolutely love you Eugene x

  • Zee
    Zee 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i always thought Zach was the gay one... didn't expect that

  • m2012o1
    m2012o1 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This was absolutely amazing. Thank you.

  • Dbodzz Youtube
    Dbodzz Youtube 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Why are you gay

  • Trowa71
    Trowa71 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm cis-straight, and I am super fucking moved. This whole project was gorgeous. I can't even.

  • jungkook’s high on banana milk
    jungkook’s high on banana milk 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    now I’m just wondering if Eugene is gonna be the wife or husband lmao

  • jungkook’s high on banana milk
    jungkook’s high on banana milk 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Eugene: Why I’m Coming Out As Gay
    Me: *_I need to be a boi now_*

    I so support gays and lesbians UwU

  • Amelia Camilleri
    Amelia Camilleri 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This is amazing. I can't relate but I understand how hard it is to have homophobic people in your life. My papa will get mad even if I mention the word "gay". His asked me many times before " Your not lesbian right? ". I love my papa but his comments really make me mad. I'm scared to make a homosexual friend because I don't want them to be treated bad just because he's stuck in his old ways. My brother has always seemed like he might be homosexual. I can't be sure completely but he has said he was gay. Of course my papa tells him to "not talk like that". I don't care how old he is. He shouldn't be talking to anyone who comes out like that. I don't know why I went on this rant but I just hate knowing there's so many hurting people out there just because they have a preference that's not what is called "normal". Thank you for listening. But please like this video and give it all the support. And go check out Eugene's coming out video. It is a masterpiece!

  • Adeyeye Samuel
    Adeyeye Samuel 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Am not surprised at all it remains the rest to come out, don't watch their videos but it's so obvious

  • iviewutoob
    iviewutoob 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    “Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived! The sexually immoral, idolators, adulterers, passive homosexual partners practicing homosexuals, thieves, the greedy, drunkards, the verbally abusive, and swindlers will not inherit the kingdom of God. Some of you once lived this way. But you were washed , you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.” 1 Corinthians 6:9-11

  • Anni Girard
    Anni Girard 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you for being you Eugene, you are awesome and I support you! ❤️❤️❤️❤️ 🌈

  • Meli Garcia
    Meli Garcia 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You know for everyone who is gay, tran and every other difference in the world be true to yourself. The hardest critic is yourself never hide who you are. If the ppl around you can't accept you then they were never really there for you anyways. I think the hardest I've ever cried is when i asked my husband what would happen if our daughter or son came out as gay? He looked me deep in the eyes came over and sat next to me and said, " baby if our kids come out and say they are gay i would hug them and tell them good for you never lie to yourself. Just try to find someone i can talk sports with lol. No just kidding. I want our kids to be able to tell us anything without fear and if they are gay it won't change anything they are still my kids and i won't treat, expect or love them any different. They are humans and we bleed together as a family." I never cry and that made me cry so hard. Never lie to yourself the struggles me face make us strong and make us who we are regardless if you are gay or straight never lie to yourself. Love yourself for your differences.

  • ༺• Annika Curley •༻
    ༺• Annika Curley •༻ 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i was watching bts how exactly did i get here..?

  • Alivia Nuttall
    Alivia Nuttall 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I think people should just let people be who they want to to be. I am very happy for Eugene.

  • Lauren Cox
    Lauren Cox 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Are we not going to talk about the "Son, you can have two cranes"????

  • Junglecock 2.0
    Junglecock 2.0 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Okay but who tf is the 17K dislikes they boutta catch hands

  • Junglecock 2.0
    Junglecock 2.0 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I think we can all agree that Eugene is such a great role model.
    I love you Eugene!!!!

  • shatteredmxxn Moon
    shatteredmxxn Moon 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Gay was a toxic word for me because I got bullied and told that even though I wasn't and I am the same way as you were or are I did cry through this and the video

  • Karoline Pinkau
    Karoline Pinkau 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Love him
    Absolutely love him

  • Sun Child :P
    Sun Child :P 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This feels weird but.....Try Gay! Get it....like not Try Guy.....No?.......Ok

  • Anoushka Singh
    Anoushka Singh 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I wonder if 10 years later if the LGBTQ+ couples will be considered just as "normal" as strsight couples. Kinda like how its in the Sims.

  • Delisia Jyotsna Martis
    Delisia Jyotsna Martis 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This video took so much energy from you and it is clear in the behind the scenes shot. I cannot believe how self lessly you've acted at this point. I am astonished at the human race right now and reassured about its capability to show empathy.

  • smithcut3
    smithcut3 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    *Eugene in 2016*
    Girls: wow he is so hot I want him
    *eugene in 2019*
    guys: fuck yeah our turn

  • Trevvoo
    Trevvoo 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i just started watching you guys and I'm proud. you deserve happiness man congratulations.

  • michael hipolito
    michael hipolito 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm an Asian and straight but i cried while watching this video and then rewatch the coming out video while crying. I felt how hard it must've been knowing who you are and what can make you happy for years but too afraid to embrace it.

  • Avamia Bussiere
    Avamia Bussiere 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    1 like means more love for eugene

  • Lady Sarcasm
    Lady Sarcasm 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I stand by the fact that all hot guys are either taken or gay. I totally can’t wait to see who Eugene has as his future try husband.....🥰
    He’s always been my favorite try guy( no offense to the rest) and this has only strengthened my love for him as a person. This shows how truly strong he is and will always be. Everyone who truly cares about you is in your side Eugene! 🤗

  • Bonnalina Fuzbunny
    Bonnalina Fuzbunny 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Makes sense that you cried a lot. Capricorns are known to be very emotional and a bit dramatic.

  • Jinxxs
    Jinxxs 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So uhm.. I'm pan and basically if I tell my parents I KNOW they will be like "Oh, it's a dumb phase" Or "Get out" Or even "You don't know what your talking about, your still a kid"

  • h y
    h y 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    because your faggot

    • Daniela Daylight
      Daniela Daylight 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      h y Do you mean: Because you’re a faggot?

  • Emily kruger
    Emily kruger 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    the laugh at 0:14 is me in front of my parents when i came out

  • Kromosome S
    Kromosome S 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    -_- unsub lol

  • TheSadlowskis
    TheSadlowskis 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I knew you where gay

  • Nathaniel Elliott
    Nathaniel Elliott 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    We love you and I bisexual
    we all love you

  • Natalie Whitaker
    Natalie Whitaker 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’m bi and closeted and this video just meant so much to me. It’s so relatable and thank you Eugene for being so brave to really put yourself out there

  • Minnie
    Minnie 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’m so proud of him

  • Amy Liao
    Amy Liao 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Eugene is so brave!!!!!!!

  • wiltedcherrytree
    wiltedcherrytree 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i don't even have the confidence to tell my parents i'm gender-fluid
    but that's amazing
    he can genuinely express himself in the way that he truly feels
    not everyone has the self-confidence for that

  • Litchey Naartjie
    Litchey Naartjie 3 วันที่ผ่านมา


  • Blaze Wolf
    Blaze Wolf 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I cried so much when he talked about opening the letter to himself about him being finally happy. I wrote something really similar and I can genuinely say "I felt that".

  • Kat Crew
    Kat Crew 3 วันที่ผ่านมา


    BATMAN LLAMABILL 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I just don't get why he thinks it's so hard to come out. Honestly it's 2019 nobody cares, especially when it's been obvious literally forever. Such a drama queen.
    P.s this isn't me being homophobe, this is me being honest.

    • Nobody Important
      Nobody Important 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Coming out isn’t just telling people that you’re gay, bi, etc. It’s also accepting and realizing that you’re gay. Comments like this may even discourage one to come out. They may think that coming out is being dramatic, making them think that they shouldn’t come out. And if you think people don’t care about someone coming out, you’re wrong. I easily see and hear THclips comments and stories about how someone tries to come out, but is then not accepted by their family. I’ve even seen youtube comments that discourage and disgrace someone for coming out. Coming out takes more courage then what you think. Eugene thought he was bad because of the church he was in during his younger life. He stated in the video that when he was younger, he always thought he was a bad person. His younger self wrote a letter to his future self that only said, “Are you finally happy?”. Eugene said in the video that he was tired of thinking that he deserved to be shit on. When someone comes out, they worry that other people won’t accept them. Because that happens.

  • Drew M
    Drew M 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I have known you were gay since the first days when you guys did the trying out of different foods. Years ago!

    Taehyung is PRECIOUS AND AMAZING 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Don't worry Eugene we will always love you no matter what. Gay or straight it doesn't matter. We love you as a person and for who you are. I'm sorry you are going through all this stress and shit. I personally understand what you are going through. I even felt this way when I came out to my mother. Please just be happy and stop stressing over this. Don't worry about what people think and do what you want. We will accept you and if people don't they don't know and love you like we do. I love you so much and I hope you find someone and become happy. 💓💜💙💚💛

  • Peggyt1243
    Peggyt1243 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I thought Eugene came out years ago. It seems I always knew he was gay. What is the problem?

    • Nobody Important
      Nobody Important 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      He never did. Back then all he said was that he was queer. Leading most people to believe he was bi. He never completely addressed that he was gay. Only until June was when he decided to officially address and confirm he was gay.

  • pacator17
    pacator17 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This (Why I'm Coming Out As Gay) is a very powerful video and the way it complements the coming out video is very valuable. Thank you for you, for your talent and your vulnerability. I truly hope you can one day answer a whole-hearted "yes!" to your younger self's question whether you're finally happy. Wishing you all the best, from the Netherlands.

  • Soleil Gignac
    Soleil Gignac 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I genuinely appreciate all the work that went into it but it looses me once he gets into the drag queen scenes because then it turns into something of a shadow, a label. Being gay isn't a visual, your normal like everyone else, just into same sex. Where as the drag queen scene is limited to ONLY drag queens; only this "flamboyant" persona. At the end of the film, its almost demeaning to the family as all his past family members have been replaced with these "I'm better then you" queens. It's truly touching and heartbreaking to watch as he's being solidified into this new family due to how strict his old family was.
    Eugene, you truly have a gift for art, a real inspiration. I want you to know that it doesn't matter whether or not your gay. Being gay isn't a personality. I think the real message being told is that using force on your child will only drive them further away. But, I suppose that's just a personal interpretation.
    Nonetheless, absolutely beautiful story. Theres so much to analyze in the costumes, in the dance, in facial expressions. theres a story embedded into each movement as it all comes from the heart. Though it didn't inspire me to "come out" or to wear a pride flag around my neck, it did inspire me to hopefully one day, tell a story as thoughtful as this.

  • DogLover
    DogLover 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I wanna see Eugenes husband wear a wig and nail polish and join the try wives

  • Josue Pina
    Josue Pina 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Literally every single asian youtuber I've seen are gay!!

  • hahagah ya poop
    hahagah ya poop 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Where my gay/american/asian squad at?

  • Retarded Thomas the tank
    Retarded Thomas the tank 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm so proud of Eugene, I'm so happy for you

  • beth moore
    beth moore 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I always thought he was gay so glad he is happy now.

  • divan0v
    divan0v 4 วันที่ผ่านมา


  • fayze
    fayze 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    YES FARREN!!!!!

  • Lara Omar
    Lara Omar 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Proud is really an understatement, he poured his heart out for this and it came out so beautifully, the story the shots the hard work put into it it all makes me so happy🖤

  • Lemelia Johnson Bonner
    Lemelia Johnson Bonner 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm really confused. Why did I think he's always been out and everyone already knew he was gay?

  • Abigail Snook
    Abigail Snook 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Eugene you are truly inspiring

  • Aaliyah Kaululaau
    Aaliyah Kaululaau 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love you Eugene I’m so proud of you 🏳️‍🌈

  • Koreenth
    Koreenth 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Being gay here is different from how gene is. So idk what exactly is gay?

  • I'm Not ok
    I'm Not ok 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm happy that he's happy

  • Hello Kitty1015
    Hello Kitty1015 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    He truly has a great mind. I have much respect for this man. Personally coming from an Asian background, I understand all the restrictions and beliefs we have to go through. And I’m a straight girl!! I can’t imagine the pain he had to go through. I applaud and look up to this man. Good Job Eugene!! 👏👏

  • Eric Tang
    Eric Tang 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I support you

  • Ultra Instinct Warrior
    Ultra Instinct Warrior 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I saw this coming and happy that he finally opened up

  • Melissa Moore
    Melissa Moore 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    "Young Me would definitely think that Current Me is in a good place, and that's good to remember." - Eugene

  • redhatgnome
    redhatgnome 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This is all so beautiful

  • Mary Pienkos
    Mary Pienkos 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    im proud. i am lgbtq+ its hard but worth it

  • G/G
    G/G 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    proud of him. so proud of him. the actual video was complex, it was beautiful. also, cool how he referenced buzzfeed videos multiple times as an inspiration.

  • doombuggy123
    doombuggy123 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Eugene needs his own channel, or like his own production company. I feel like he’s really outgrown this THclips nonsense. He’s a big fish in a pretty big pond. Which just speaks to his talent and drive.

  • Witch
    Witch 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It was a shock to me when he came out. Because I literally thought he was always gay

  • Jxggukk
    Jxggukk 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i don’t know if you’ll ever see this,but i’m so proud of u

  • Shakeh's World
    Shakeh's World 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    He turns gay on my brother's birthday, great.

  • Atticus Jackson
    Atticus Jackson 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Haven’t watched the video yet but let me take a crack at it is it because... you’re gay
    (If there’s some deeper meaning don’t come for me it was a joke)

  • Sophie L.
    Sophie L. 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you!

  • GreenEcheveria
    GreenEcheveria 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Jesus christ Eugene is so professional and talented, things are going to get even better I can feel it. I can't wait to see what he does in the coming years.

  • Vega Janda
    Vega Janda 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1


  • i love gay meatballs :3
    i love gay meatballs :3 4 วันที่ผ่านมา